I suspect you vastly underestimate the number of what you call "overly-sensitive" people – I'd call them the norm. For example, there's only 2-5% women in Debia

I suspect you vastly underestimate the number of what you call "overly-sensitive" people – I'd call them the norm. For example, there's only 2-5% women in Debian or Ubuntu. Where did the other 48% disappear to? Certain cultures are severely underrepresented too. It's open source, meaning mostly volunteers: why would anyone want to put up with "abrasive and insensitive" people for fun?