That's a perfectly legitimate argument for why a race-preference in dating should not be considered racism. I do not object to it now, nor have I ever. What I

That's a perfectly legitimate argument for why a race-preference in dating should not be considered racism. I do not object to it now, nor have I ever. What I do object to is conflating sex and race when it comes to questions of sex. The previous claim, which I objected to, was that there's no difference between a sex preference in dating and a race preference in dating. That's definitely not true, for the reasons I've outlined twice now. Personally, I agree with you - a race preference in sexual attraction is not something you really have control over, any more than most other sexual preferences.