That's right he didn't. The OP didn't quite do the TL;DR right, really the letter goes something like this: Part 1 (How I made my manager hate me): I insisted

That's right he didn't. The OP didn't quite do the TL;DR right, really the letter goes something like this: Part 1 (How I made my manager hate me): I insisted that we have better performance and everyone told me to f* off, so I went above my manager and now she hates me. (This is reasonable of her) Par 2 She asks me to commit a crime and I raise it with HR, etc.