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To be honest, we don't know anything about their relationship, but calling the last 10 years a prison sentence to celibacy is a bit ridiculous. Also, having a h
by ravitation 12y ago
To be honest, we don't know anything about their relationship, but calling the last 10 years a prison sentence to celibacy is a bit ridiculous. Also, having a husband that is too focused on providing for his family financially is certainly not neglect.
As you say, there is more to love and marriage than sex - but both are built on trust. If she was unhappy she needed to voice her unhappiness, not destroy the trust on which the rest of their life was built. That's why she deservers the entirety of the blame. Cheating on a long term partner is one of the worst betrayals of trust there is.
- JoeAltmaier 12y agoTrust goes two ways. Piling "all the blame" on one of them is silly; clearly both were to blame. That's self-evident. And I'm not sure who betrayed whom. Both neglected the relationship; both found other mistresses to occupy them, both for selfish reasons.
- SnacksOnAPlane 12y agoI would argue that being focused on money at the expense of seeing your family is absolutely neglect. You can spin it as "being responsible" all you want, but it's far more important for a kid to have a father that's present and engaged than for the kid to be financially well-off.