Read Erich Fromm. All of it, or at least the stuff he wrote about psychology and love. If you then feel you still have to add something, go for it. Otherwise, j

Read Erich Fromm. All of it, or at least the stuff he wrote about psychology and love. If you then feel you still have to add something, go for it. Otherwise, just recommend Erich Fromm and not only will you save everybody time, but also bad advice.