SJW is such a demeaning term that can be applied to anyone who points out something they feel is wrong in the world. So how are you supposed to point out things

SJW is such a demeaning term that can be applied to anyone who points out something they feel is wrong in the world. So how are you supposed to point out things which are wrong and not "overdo it" like some lame SJW? Or should we just all be "cool" and not point out the fucked up things people do or say throughout our lives? I'm really tired of people gas-lighting others who dare to say "Hey, that's not okay" to the co-worker doing the typical "chinese person speaking engrish" impression or joking about how the woman interviewing for the software engineer position probably isn't very good. What is your stance on this? What turns someone from a decent person into a social justice warrior to you? Am I an SJW in your eyes for this response? Why?