That was a really interesting read, but on the creepy/terrifying side of things. One line especially stood out to me: > When we announced my wife’s pregnancy,

That was a really interesting read, but on the creepy/terrifying side of things. One line especially stood out to me: > When we announced my wife’s pregnancy, Grandma freaked out about how there’d be another mouth to feed and we couldn’t afford it. Assuming the miscarriage happened intentionally, as a consequence of Grandma's food, then I am taken aback by how this woman acted autonomously and intrusively, attempting to covertly control the lives of others, for their "benefit," because she "loved them." I suppose that's a remarkable example of the danger of not understanding boundaries: where social responsibilities end, and where dangerous overreach begins.