This is rarely about time, and more about relative importance. Work can be an obsession, which is easy to confuse with "more important than me." I doubt your g

This is rarely about time, and more about relative importance. Work can be an obsession, which is easy to confuse with "more important than me." I doubt your girlfriend is asking for work/life balance, exactly. She's probably just saying she wants to feel as important as work seems. That's a thing you can work on.