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Is social status policing a high priority for you? If so, that complaint makes a lot of sense. If not, it is a silly thing to worry about. Note that if socia
by patio11 12y ago
Is social status policing a high priority for you? If so, that complaint makes a lot of sense. If not, it is a silly thing to worry about.
Note that if social status policing is a high priority, you should probably start working on rules for who is and is not allowed to call themselves a Founder, because as of late that title is receiving attention. (No lie: I once got told in the Valley that having Founder on my business cards was "A bit disingenuous, no?" because I wasn't as founder-y as Founders who founded foundable things.)
- frostmatthew 12y agoPG tweeted[1] about this yesterday: I have misgivings about the tendency to make "founder" a title rather than a reference to a historical fact. [1] https://twitter.com/paulg/status/526207483920932865 https://twitter.com/paulg/status/526207483920932865
- pdpi 12y agoI'm not sure it's about policing social status. To me, calling yourself "CEO" of a tiny startup reeks of self-aggrandizement, which is the sort of attitude that rubs me the wrong way.
- tptacek 12y agoYou might not be connecting the dots here. The concern or even attention to "self-aggrandizement" is itself a form of social status policing. That's literally what the term means.
- pdpi 12y agoMaybe we have read "social status policing" to mean completely different things. To me, that suggests caring a lot about status, and worrying a lot about people laying claim to more status than what they're due. My issue here is with people turning status, either deserved or otherwise, into a bigger thing than it is. Social status is only very rarely material to any given conversation, so I do care when people feel the need to bring it up, and when they feel the need to give themselves pompous titles, because they're signalling to me that they do care about status, and they're going to make it an issue in our dealings.
- nostrademons 12y agoAren't you also signalling that you care a lot about status by complaining about it? Usually when people actually don't care about something, they just make note of the fact that somebody else does and slightly alter their dealings with that person to get a more favorable outcome. An argument isn't a favorable outcome; negotiating more of something you do care about (like equity, or influence, or effort on their part) in exchange for something they care about (like titles) is.
- andrea_s 12y agoActually it bothers me because I am the "CTO" of a 3-people company - when we started, I'd have preferred less glamorous titles, but my partners saw an advantage in using standard terminology to clearly separate our roles... So no social policing - it just stirred some latent doubts about my current title :) Of course in the end it matters little - this kind of silly discussion is good for a working Sunday afternoon. It's not like we can do anything to stop people from bandwagoning on the cool titles of this week... Cordially, Ninja Pirate Space Robot Guru Software Proactive Artist Manager