If I didn't respect their privacy, I could point you to one right now. In fact, figuring this out was a source of significant enlightenment for me. (Thanks, I

If I didn't respect their privacy, I could point you to one right now. In fact, figuring this out was a source of significant enlightenment for me. (Thanks, Internet!) I wouldn't describe them as an unqualified success, but they are very good at getting what they want -- and leaving the rest behind. I can't imagine that they (speaking generally) are that unusual. Separate from my own experience, and I haven't read it yet, but a relative has recommended the book, People of the Lie. I don't know whether their experience was with a psychopath, but the title grabbed my attention.