Agreed. One of the most important duties of a parent is to serve a positive example by living how you would want your children to live. I know too many whining

Agreed. One of the most important duties of a parent is to serve a positive example by living how you would want your children to live. I know too many whining self-martyrs that believe the quality of parenting is proportional to the amount of misery they are in. I don't believe that is true and these parents are not only failing themselves, but their families as well.