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You got mad at him for making an impersonal remark I think Are you saying that you're too lazy to read what people are saying and form your own opinions? is a
by Confusion 17y ago
You got mad at him for making an impersonal remark
I think Are you saying that you're too lazy to read what people are saying and form your own opinions? is a rather personal remark. A psychologizing one at that. Pot, meet kettle.
- unalone 17y agoIf by "pot, meet kettle", you're mentioning how dcurtis responded to my remark with a personal psychologizing remark, then the expression makes sense; otherwise, I'm confused. I didn't get mad at what dcurtis said, so I don't know who's the pot and who's the kettle here. "Are you saying that" is an opener that means, "How is it that you're viewing this, because I see it like this". I wasn't trying to be snide and put him down. I was letting him know that's how I was viewing the situation, and asking him his interpretation. It was also a teeny bit tongue-in-cheek, considering, again, he's currently spending a month of his life flying in planes.
- xenophanes 17y agoBut he choose to highlight the profanity, not the remarks you point out. He told us which remark offended him, and it was an impersonal one.