I agree with most of what is said but: An unsolicited “I find you attractive!” remark isn’t a compliment, it’s a note from a boner. That certainly would be ba

I agree with most of what is said but: An unsolicited “I find you attractive!” remark isn’t a compliment, it’s a note from a boner. That certainly would be bad when the environment is work-related, but I hope it is allowable under some circumstances? I might have said a car was "hot" once, a long time ago, but it didn't imply that I was sexually attracted to it. I guess I said it because that's what people generally said to describe enthusiasm about something. I didn't know I was seriously making women uncomfortable.