"one needs to consider the problem from both genders" Exactly. I think Tinder's model is more aligned with how men and women meet IRL. As a guy, my modus opera

"one needs to consider the problem from both genders" Exactly. I think Tinder's model is more aligned with how men and women meet IRL. As a guy, my modus operandi is to present myself as a high-valued man to everyone and have the women pre-select me so I can start the interaction. How men use Tinder: like like like like "Oops, I wanted to see the rest of her pictures" How women use Tinder: nope nope nope nope "Oops, he was cute" Its the 80/20 rule-- 20% of the guys will get most of the likes from the girls. With all that repetition, I think there must be an even better model for matching people up...