> 2) The problem there is that if you don't like your second match, then what? It should be your choice. If you choose not to go on a date, thats on you, the d

> 2) The problem there is that if you don't like your second match, then what? It should be your choice. If you choose not to go on a date, thats on you, the dating ring's work has been done. If, however, you accept the date and they dont, there is nothing you could have done and should be set up with someone else. From the dating ring's perspective, that should be fine too because work was done for value (i.e. the party that declined the date got their value). This also goes well with your second statement.