I see what you're saying, but let's say on OkCupid the vast majority of people you wouldn't want to message, let alone meet. You message the highest matches bas

I see what you're saying, but let's say on OkCupid the vast majority of people you wouldn't want to message, let alone meet. You message the highest matches based on similarity, interests, and appearance (who you might be potentially attracted to in real life). If you're particular, that might mean only messaging one or two people per day depending on your style. What happens if you get that one match per week from Dating Ring and you automatically are not attracted to them based on appearance or personality? There are certainly people who seem really interesting and then they message me back and then it's pretty clear that we're never going to have a fun conversation, and you move on. Hard to do that with one match per week. I know online dating can be tedious at times, but let's be honest, going to bars all the time or picking up a ton of new hobbies to meet new people is even more time-consuming and from what I've seen from myself and many other people definitely less fruitful.