So a site called 'conspire' assumes my mail is all in gmail and wants access to it so I can surveil the contacts of people I exchange messages with and their ex

So a site called 'conspire' assumes my mail is all in gmail and wants access to it so I can surveil the contacts of people I exchange messages with and their extended networks in turn? You couldn't make this up really. It seems more ethical and less creepy to hire private detectives at this point.