This is definitely something that people should not be shy about discussing. Getting a 'yes' from your boss is obviously nice, but getting a 'no' can also be b

This is definitely something that people should not be shy about discussing. Getting a 'yes' from your boss is obviously nice, but getting a 'no' can also be beneficial. It sets future expectation for both parties. And a repeated 'no' sends a clear signal: find a better job.