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Personally, I like to think that people can relate to a story/experience without the need to make it gender neutral. As someone that has to overcome a social de
by zo1 12y ago
Personally, I like to think that people can relate to a story/experience without the need to make it gender neutral. As someone that has to overcome a social debility, I can't even contemplate the height of arrogance of telling others to jump through hoops for my sake. Politeness and respect is all I ask. Barring that, I simply do not interact with them.
- davmre 12y agoIf you're relating a personal experience, "I once met a seriously hot girl...", sure. That's not quite what the OP said, though. Again, imagine you're speaking in person with a (straight) woman. You might tell a story about when you met a hot girl (assuming this is a personal conversation where that sort of story would be appropriate). But would you ever ask your friend if she had ever met a hot girl but then lost interest? It just doesn't make sense as a question in this context.