I read a more basic article on this a while back on Cracked[0], that you might find interesting if you liked this. I find there to be a lot of truth to the bas

I read a more basic article on this a while back on Cracked[0], that you might find interesting if you liked this. I find there to be a lot of truth to the basic idea of this. But I think there is also a lot of individual variation. As I have gotten older and developed better social skills, I recognize that I am an Introvert at my core, and only care to maintain a small number of close relationships. Despite this, I am capable of being social, chatty, and sometimes even charming during social events, when I'm at my best, but I usually have no desire to maintain most of those relationships. At the core, you have to figure out what is right for you, not what other people or society think you should want, and work towards maintaining that. [0] http://www.cracked.com/article_14990_what-monkeysphere.html http://www.cracked.com/article_14990_what-monkeysphere.html