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Maybe if people drift apart it's because they're supposed to? Why can't we just let things happen naturally? Why does there have to be a formulaic approach to
by benesy 12y ago
Maybe if people drift apart it's because they're supposed to?
Why can't we just let things happen naturally? Why does there have to be a formulaic approach to everything? Why do you need to be an outlier? Why can't people just be normal?
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- lordfoom 12y agoI'd argue we're "supposed to" maintain lifelong friendships, as we used to do before we were so geographically mobile. Folks used to grow up and live their entire lives in a small area and know everyone there. What weight you give this depends on your definition of "supposed to", I suppose; personally, it's been greatly rewarding for me to maintain my friendships, some of which are almost as old as I am.
- beaumartinez 12y agoRelationships are an investment. It requires some effort but the return on that effort is incredibly high. As I get older I realize how valuable my friendships all are.