I'm so surprised how the society keeps saying how women/people leaving the workplace to have kids is a bad thing. Personally, I would love to have the opportuni

I'm so surprised how the society keeps saying how women/people leaving the workplace to have kids is a bad thing. Personally, I would love to have the opportunity to stay at home and not need to go to work. However, being a man, the institutional, cultural and sexual factors compound and make it very unlikely that I will be so lucky. Maybe I should move to the Netherlands - there, most women and a lot of men only work part-time jobs, as they earn enough and are able to have a better work-life balance.