Go to class and do the assignments. And also do the side work and learning that you are enjoying. College students have so much free time and resources availa

Go to class and do the assignments. And also do the side work and learning that you are enjoying. College students have so much free time and resources available to you, but waste it all on sleeping until noon and spending afternoons playing video games. For intolerably boring lectures, consider doodling. Maybe you can also offer some constructive help in improving the class. If it's a web programming class in PHP, and you think Python would be a good addition, offer to do a 20 minute demo in some upcoming class. I have students do this kind of thing all the time, albeit usually they're after honors credit. I recommend you marry the girl. A wife civilizes a man. At the very least, she'll get your priorities straightened out, make sure you're eating and sleeping on a normal schedule like a human being, and hold you to finishing the degree.