Ok, granted, my experience is an anecdote, but downvoting me without disputing what I'm saying? Pure cowardice. At least counter with your own anecdote, don't

Ok, granted, my experience is an anecdote, but downvoting me without disputing what I'm saying? Pure cowardice. At least counter with your own anecdote, don't downvote. Or let me know why I'm being downvoted, simply disagreeing shouldn't result in a downvote, that just kills the conversation.