I agree. I was trying to say that what was obvious to me were things they didn't think of. That part of the problem is that people get conditioned to see thei

I agree. I was trying to say that what was obvious to me were things they didn't think of. That part of the problem is that people get conditioned to see their horizon as narrow. It cost me nothing to help these people (Really, I did give them loans and stuff like that over time, but the real help was not money.) Unfortunately, our society is focused on the welfare system, but the welfare system never illuminated the path for these people. Of course, this is based on my experience so it's anecdote.