try and renegotiate them higher. especially if they want you to move and you have a family, they should understand. i'm not saying to renegotiate necessarily

try and renegotiate them higher. especially if they want you to move and you have a family, they should understand. i'm not saying to renegotiate necessarily to market, but try and drag them up to what you think is fair, to that balance point where you're not worried about the implications of taking the job.