> The problem is that the net effect of all those independent "preferences", which we know are shaped by society, hurts actual people. I don't think you want

> The problem is that the net effect of all those independent "preferences", which we know are shaped by society, hurts actual people. I don't think you want to go down this route, though. Are short men hurt by the fact that women are typically less attracted to them? If so, what remedy would you propose?