Don't read "The Game". Also, you don't love her. As someone who's batted above and below his league, trust me when I say that being yourself is the only way to

Don't read "The Game". Also, you don't love her. As someone who's batted above and below his league, trust me when I say that being yourself is the only way to lasting commitment/happiness. On the other hand, if you want to get laid, play the game. I've tried both paths. The key has always been to be seem genuine.