I feel the urge to correct an underlying misapprehension running through this post. Being competitive is not anti-social. It may not be for you. It may not be f

I feel the urge to correct an underlying misapprehension running through this post. Being competitive is not anti-social. It may not be for you. It may not be for me. But competitive behavior is a staple of human (and other animal) social behavior. Mafiosos bust balls. Jocks kid and taunt each other. Michael Jordan was both extremely competitive and extremely friendly and social. Competitiveness and social-ness aren't antagonists for all people, just some of us.