I kind of agree with you here, and as someone who has dysgraphia, and a few other learning disabilities I kind of always was uncomfortable about how people trie

I kind of agree with you here, and as someone who has dysgraphia, and a few other learning disabilities I kind of always was uncomfortable about how people tried to make it a zero-sum game. It always turned into things like: "Yeah son you can't write that well, and expressing complex ideas in a non-verbal form is really difficult, but heck it means you're really good at math!" to be kind of insulting, even as a kid. I wish I could get into into more detail, but I'll plead my learning disability and say that expressing a complex idea like this non verbally is a real bitch. People are different, how people learn is just another dimension I guess. I don't need science to tell me i'm a special snowflake, I know I am because most people are.