I meant considered appropriate within their moral framework. I wrote it to stress that it's often group behavior, with the enablers and supporters that go alon

I meant considered appropriate within their moral framework. I wrote it to stress that it's often group behavior, with the enablers and supporters that go along with it, and that you shouldn't think about it in terms of the 'lone distraught person.' Just to be clear: I would never, ever, wish to be associated in any manner with a person or organization that operates on such a moral framework.