In situations where the rapist is a friend of the victim, it's nearly impossible to prove that the sex wasn't consensual. Many, many rape survivors agree that

In situations where the rapist is a friend of the victim, it's nearly impossible to prove that the sex wasn't consensual. Many, many rape survivors agree that rape trials are often far worse than the actual rape. Even a conviction won't undo what is done, and in a rape trial the defense feverishly tries to prove that the victim is a slut/unfaithful/etc who wanted the sex - and this often involves digging up all kinds of painful and personal information on the victim. Please save your anger for rapists, not their victims.