The code of conduct is scrupulously gender neutral. It also covers race, religion and physical handicap. It boils down to "don't be a jerk". The fact that you

The code of conduct is scrupulously gender neutral. It also covers race, religion and physical handicap. It boils down to "don't be a jerk". The fact that you find this offputting is curious. The tingling feeling tells me the code of conduct is working.