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If this is your first one, .1 seconds after you see that baby for the first time, your brain will dump your current frame of mind and upload a completely new ve

If this is your first one, .1 seconds after you see that baby for the first time, your brain will dump your current frame of mind and upload a completely new version with multiple changes on priorities, motivation, elements that provide happiness etc etc.. If I where in your place, for now I would hang on what I have, until the baby is here and the dust settles (give it ~ 4 months). After that I would let the "new me" re-evaluate the situation.

collyw 12y ago
Not having any children myself, I saw this in my group leader back in January. Before hand he always focused on pedantic small bugs (spelling mistakes, colors not being quite correct) when there were (and still are) far bigger issues. (I am a one man team. I need to use the 80 / 20 rule to prioritize work). He had a kid, and now seems to only mention relevant bugs. No more trivial crap, which gives me more time to focus on the important things like the data being correct.