It is entirely possible that simply being unfriendly is a form of incompetence. It can be a pretty good marker for team dysfunction. I've had a few passive-aggr

It is entirely possible that simply being unfriendly is a form of incompetence. It can be a pretty good marker for team dysfunction. I've had a few passive-aggressive teammates - I have a low threshold of tolerance for it. I work neither in SiVa nor the Bay Area ( by choice - no offense, but no thanks), I work in Texas and nobody in the building knows everything needed to do just about any one thing. Government employment is "risk-aversion first" and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Think of the gummint as an insurance company with an army. It'll make more sense. It takes all kinds.