That's, not finding your true desire, though, that's just triggering the regret reaction. Flipping a coin is a way to think about the "what if I choose option

That's, not finding your true desire, though, that's just triggering the regret reaction. Flipping a coin is a way to think about the "what if I choose option B" in a way that feels like someone else made the decision so it's OK to resist it, instead of feeling like you made the descision yourself and get stuck in consistency bias (stubbornness).