I think that telling yourself that you're "successful" can be a huge impediment to doing what you need to do in order to be happy. If you are not happy with yo

I think that telling yourself that you're "successful" can be a huge impediment to doing what you need to do in order to be happy. If you are not happy with your job/life, then you are not successful. Take a pay cut and tell the business dept to fuck off, or go work somewhere else. Having money in the bank grants you that luxury.