More generally: If you're laser-focused on having sex with someone, you can only be judged based on sexual desirability (modified by degree of apparent desperat

More generally: If you're laser-focused on having sex with someone, you can only be judged based on sexual desirability (modified by degree of apparent desperation). If you can hold an actual conversation, then you can also be judged on personality, intelligence, humor, etc. So if you want to 'fight outside your weight class', keep your tongue inside your mouth.