Normally I pay for transit from my house to my ISPs peering points. And other service providers pay their ISPs for transit from their "houses" to the same peer

Normally I pay for transit from my house to my ISPs peering points. And other service providers pay their ISPs for transit from their "houses" to the same peering points. In this case Netflix is being forced to pay for transit from their "house" all the way to mine. Not how the internet normally works.