Physical wounds heal in a very short amount of time. Psychological/emotional damage can take years to correct, sometimes it never goes away. "Trivially ignoring

Physical wounds heal in a very short amount of time. Psychological/emotional damage can take years to correct, sometimes it never goes away. "Trivially ignoring some mean words" isn't always possible. People have insecurities and some people a good at finding and exploiting them; this isn't a gender exclusive trait.