"As for the lesson, I think it should be "learn how to love yourself, so people's negativity can't penetrate you" Agreed, so much of the hell experienced throu

"As for the lesson, I think it should be "learn how to love yourself, so people's negativity can't penetrate you" Agreed, so much of the hell experienced through other people can be averted by focusing on building up one's confidence and self-esteem.