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Possible, but not probable. 19 is not 15 and having sex for the first time ever. One wonders why she didn't accuse him of rape at the time.

nrmitchi 12y ago
I really think you are jumping to a conclusion here that 19 years olds are sexually experienced.
- mreiland 12y ago
  Do I think a 19 year old is generally going to be as open about sex as a 39 year old? no. do I think a 19 year old isn't going to accidentally rape someone? yes. Just how many years of experience do you think it takes before one can avoid accidentally raping someone?
  - icebraining 12y ago
    Why do you assume a 19 year has any sexual experience whatsoever? According to this study[1], 30+% of men hadn't. [1] Mosher WD, Chandra A, Jones J. Sexual behavior and selected health measures: Men and women 15–44 years of age, United States, 2002
    - mreiland 12y ago
      shame on you. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16250464 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16250464 > RESULTS: Among adults 25-44 years of age, 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women have had vaginal intercourse; 90 percent of men and 88 percent of women have had oral sex with an opposite-sex partner; and 40 percent of men and 35 percent of women have had anal sex with an opposite-sex partner. About 6.5 percent of men 25-44 years of age have had oral or anal sex with another man. Based on a differently worded question, 11 percent of women 25-44 years of age reported having had a sexual experience with another woman. The public health significance of the findings is described.
      - icebraining 12y ago
        We were talking about 19-years-old, not 25-44. Just because the abstract mentions those ages doesn't mean that's the only data available in the study. Here's the study with the graph; as you can see, only 69% of 19-year-old men had had vaginal intercourse (i.e., sex): http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf
        mreiland 12y ago
        of which the OP is automatically not in the demographic of, seeing as how we're talking about a sexual encounter he had. It isn't that difficult to avoid accidentally raping someone. Seriously. Why is this something that needs to be argued? 19 is not 15, period.

nrmitchi 12y ago

I really think you are jumping to a conclusion here that 19 years olds are sexually experienced.

mreiland 12y ago
Do I think a 19 year old is generally going to be as open about sex as a 39 year old? no. do I think a 19 year old isn't going to accidentally rape someone? yes. Just how many years of experience do you think it takes before one can avoid accidentally raping someone?
- icebraining 12y ago
  Why do you assume a 19 year has any sexual experience whatsoever? According to this study[1], 30+% of men hadn't. [1] Mosher WD, Chandra A, Jones J. Sexual behavior and selected health measures: Men and women 15–44 years of age, United States, 2002
  - mreiland 12y ago
    shame on you. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16250464 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16250464 > RESULTS: Among adults 25-44 years of age, 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women have had vaginal intercourse; 90 percent of men and 88 percent of women have had oral sex with an opposite-sex partner; and 40 percent of men and 35 percent of women have had anal sex with an opposite-sex partner. About 6.5 percent of men 25-44 years of age have had oral or anal sex with another man. Based on a differently worded question, 11 percent of women 25-44 years of age reported having had a sexual experience with another woman. The public health significance of the findings is described.
    - icebraining 12y ago
      We were talking about 19-years-old, not 25-44. Just because the abstract mentions those ages doesn't mean that's the only data available in the study. Here's the study with the graph; as you can see, only 69% of 19-year-old men had had vaginal intercourse (i.e., sex): http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf
      - mreiland 12y ago
        of which the OP is automatically not in the demographic of, seeing as how we're talking about a sexual encounter he had. It isn't that difficult to avoid accidentally raping someone. Seriously. Why is this something that needs to be argued? 19 is not 15, period.