Sorry, can't help you, I haven't figured it out for myself either. A decade older, working remotely, with more savings than I know what to do with, 1-2 friends

Sorry, can't help you, I haven't figured it out for myself either. A decade older, working remotely, with more savings than I know what to do with, 1-2 friends I see once in while, single, few interests or desires to speak of. All I know is that the usual suggestions here and elsewhere (travelling, dance lessons, partying, etc) don't do much if anything for me. I do get a feeling of "missing out" every now and then but it's more like "missing out whatever brain hardware/software motivates regular people enjoy things that leave me indifferent", not the remorse kind of missing out.