This is a very a sensitive topic to talk about, and I might be tempted to say more on this, but I won't, For the sake of all good things. I cannot agree 100% wi

This is a very a sensitive topic to talk about, and I might be tempted to say more on this, but I won't, For the sake of all good things. I cannot agree 100% with either of the sides, on this issue. But a good way to think about this situation is this: If you go search for a lion in a jungle, you would probably find one. If you do, you will feel ever threatened to live near that jungle compared to when you were unaware of his presence and just living in your space, and the loin keeping to his jungle. Spying similarly makes you ever-so conscious of anything that borders the line of what you agree and disagree with. People who have photographic memory suffer from a similar curse. If they have seen a murder scene, they cannot ever forget it. Forgetting is a good thing. This sort of spying doesn't leaves a room for Forgetting much more for Forgiving.