> There's a lack of alignment between a person's explicitly declared preferences and the things which actually make them happy. This is so ridiculously true whe

> There's a lack of alignment between a person's explicitly declared preferences and the things which actually make them happy. This is so ridiculously true when it comes to dating on and offline. < I completely agree with you. That was my original point. Nick's answer just didn't make any sense to me. How can you agree that people don't know what they want, yet say that that this is why he created this app, when the explicit stated intention is "dating sites for people who know what they want". This is more like a "dating site for people who think they know what they want".