Thanks for the sarcasm. We're not talking about egregious examples of bad behaviour. These subtle-isms are vague; they're hard to identify and explain; they cr

Thanks for the sarcasm. We're not talking about egregious examples of bad behaviour. These subtle-isms are vague; they're hard to identify and explain; they crop up unconsciously. It's not bad manners if you don't know you've upset someone, or you're unaware that you're enforcing damaging social norms. We should change & we should question our moral compasses. For me, this is an absolute. But the proposed solution only works in situations where all actors are acting in good faith. It's too easily subverted. I have no beef with Hacker School for trying this, but time and again, groups that work within these frameworks devolve into politicking and rules lawyering.