> In a wiser society, prospective partners would put each other through detailed psychological questionnaires and send themselves off to be assessed at length b

> In a wiser society, prospective partners would put each other through detailed psychological questionnaires and send themselves off to be assessed at length by teams of psychologists. My wife and I did premarital counseling. I highly recommend it. We learned a lot about ourselves, each other, and us as a couple. (We did it with our pastor and a couple we respected. But I recommend it regardless of religious ideology.)