And, in fact, rape is often one of those, exactly because there's a lot of pressure on victims to not press charges. We don't know the details, we don't know th

And, in fact, rape is often one of those, exactly because there's a lot of pressure on victims to not press charges. We don't know the details, we don't know the actual texts, but "she did not want to press charges against him for rape" sounds so familiar it's enough to make one shudder inside. And it's very, very different from "she didn't consider it a rape". Which might be the actual content of the text itself, but we don't know that.