This book makes me feel bad about myself because I'm a programmer without being outwardly geeky. I don't work out, I don't use the word "bro", my typical weeken

This book makes me feel bad about myself because I'm a programmer without being outwardly geeky. I don't work out, I don't use the word "bro", my typical weekend activity includes something involving my computer, and I spend almost no money on clothes... but somehow I still felt offended by the beginning of this book.