Exactly. So many young people are terrified that if they come out that their whole life is going to be about being gay. Everybody will interact with you throug

Exactly. So many young people are terrified that if they come out that their whole life is going to be about being gay. Everybody will interact with you through the lense of the dominating fact that you are gay. The message people get is that it's okay to be gay as long as you act reasonably straight or are funny enough to be on TV. Same message being sent to blacks. No problem as long as you act normal aka white.